He wonât pressure you to do things that you donât want ⦠1. I found out "Officially" from a family friend. Pick yourself up, take back your power and throw your deuces up and run. Now my 6th sense works stronger than ever. Does everyone else think he's gay or down-low? There are various signs that let people know if their mate is creeping on the DL. Six years ago, I dated a man on the downlow, but I didn't realize it until a few years later when I read a few chapters of, Men on the DL, which made me so nauseous that I couldn't finish it. Does he wear more colorful clothing than you or have a fascination with pink or rainbows or who your brothers dating or your brother himself? Down low men are in denial about their sexuality, afraid to be themselves, afraid of being abandoned, disowned and afraid of what they’re family and friends would say if someone knew their gay. 43. I can say that the author is crafty at getting attention. If this list is comprised of traits of men who were not interested in you... perhaps you have a problem... i.e. still living after 20years. None of these things will truly identify a mans sexual orientation. Life I tell ya! Does he have a magazine in his collection that shows homosexuals doing the do? Check for semen stains and smells on his clothes and breathe. It is natural for guys to hang out with buddies, so who is to know that they are not headed for a hotel on the outskirts of town instead of the pool hall? Does he get mad if he misses Oprah or another talk show? They use their wife and children as a cover-up, so no one will suspect they are gay. 6. Down Low Clue. Does he smell the scented candles in Walgreen's or other stores? 21. First I would like to state that homosexuals are indeed people just like us but with a different sexual preference, I do not discriminate. I nearly wet my pants when they said, "Does he get too excited when the circus comes to town?". I have been in a relationship with a guy for 25 years before he recentlyrevealed to me that he was on the down low and preferred to have sex with males. 4. Can you imagine a man in his sixties gradually losing interest in having sex with women and having a deep urge to be with the same sex on a regular basis? May just be the fact that they like the feeling or maybe they are secretly down-low. Maybe he hasn't dated females in the past. Question: Do you know how many "Tears" that is? Life is too short to be thinking of other things when he is talking. Third clue, he cancelled our date to go "help" his male cousin who was performing that night in a strip club. Does he listen to a lot of love songs? Straight men do not penetrate or receive penetration from other men, nor do they participate in any kind of sex with other men. Another sign will be suspiciously close relationships with male friends whom they share EVERYTHING with. 15. I love that book. Finding this fact out would hurt if you've been in a relationship or marriage for more than 5 years,have children and think everything is peachy in the relationship. Follow your intuition, if you find out your man is on the down low think of it as a blessing in disguise. By definition, a bisexual man is one who is able to identify and honour his physical, emotional ⦠Back in 2011 I found out that my boyfriend of 8 1/2 years was online trying to meet guys to have ananl sex with them, something just wasn't right so I had to find out and then one day he was like it seems like I'm stalking him cause I wanted to know where he was and when he was coming home. THE BATHROOM IS ONE OF THE MAIN MEETING PLACES FOR DOWN LOW MEN. They do not go down low with men! Now is just the time where more men are being open and telling their truth. From an honest male here .....I can be as real as i can b/c this is anonymous. Does he get nervous or offended when someone comments about a gay or down-low person? Whatever ⦠38. Does he choose the majority of your clothes when you shop together? Don't let it happen if you can prevent it. The 7 Most Important Things You Should Know Before Considering Getting Married. And whoever wrote this article is an ignorant ass. The down low men that flip-flop from man to a woman not caring if they are spreading STDs and fecal matter everywhere these are the down low men I do not respect. How about MANY men on the down low insist on ALWAYS using a condom even if you've been in a relationship with them for years and years. All the best to you my sisters. Does he seem like a female friend you'd hang out with on a regular? Here are a few signs of down low behavior: *He is always with his homies. Does he prefer shopping at the mall more than you? Top 10 Signs To Know If Your Man Is On The Down-Low. Shutting down emotionally â emotional withdrawal â is what it looks like to the partner. Are his pants always seeming to get tighter and tighter? Does he check out guys especially with the good looking ones? What Is Bisexuality? When I say everything, I mean, I used to date a man that wanted his "best friend" to watch, webcam or join every sexcapade we had. When Madame Noire, a website that describes itself as the "Black women's lifestyle guide," publishes an article called "Signs A Man Might Be On The Down Low" its intent is clearly not to help women to spot a cheating man.An article like this was created to fuel the ever-evolving self hatred and self degradation of the Black woman. 4) The down low brotha that is not ready for a commitment will always choose a woman who will be conflicting of something he can't commit to. Does he watch a lot of romance movies,musicals? The only book I read from cover to cover without ever putting it down for even a minute, you need to read that book, asap! Does he watch soap operas knowing all the characters and what's happening in the storyline? What To Do When You Hate Who You Are. Does he own a set of flat or curling irons? A man who is on the DL is going to seem almost over the top masculine in comparison to other men, because he's hiding it! They are bisexual. Straight men go straight to women, hopefully, their wives. 34. Does he like to dress up sometimes or role play with you where he gets to be the woman? I want to wright a book and may do so later. 5. Does he act too masculine? ... You should also watch out for these signs and get help if your boyfriend tries to: ... Low self-esteem. 24. I had went to a neighborhood block meeting, and my neighbor made a statement to the police about the DL thugs. 14. That Jesus saved you from a situation that could have been your ruin. Ways To Practice Silence And Just Listen. 44. He tells his girlfriend to NEVER come by his house unexpectingly. He ALWAYS, ALWAYS talks about having anal sex with you. Society has learned to deal with the fact that there are men who prefer other men just like there are women who prefer other women and we're over it already, we're not throwing stones. TOP TEN SIGNS OF A DOWN LOW MAN 10. 42. I do not agree that all of these signs indicate that a man is a down low. Watch the hand movements in the face, finger pointing at the foreheads. That's scary be/c I didn't get the memo guys did that. I was standing beside him when a gay men called about a picture that was sended to my phone first than he called him asking did he send a picture to him and it was a picture of his penis his bed spread. hope this helps somebody. Your man should never have fecal matter in his pubic hair, under his fingernails, on the back of his shirt, or in the front of his underwear. You should definitely go into comedy writing. Women need to protect themselves by knowing the tell tell signs because this subject is one of the leading causes of STD. 15 signs to find out if your guy is gay. Haha... :). How the Gay Agenda Is Spread – Charlene Cothran. 5 Most straight men have no problem with gay guys. Face it, ladies, if your man comes home and you find strong smells and stains in odd places on his body or clothes this is a big clue. Levertis Steele from Southern Clime on September 04, 2012: Downlows know! Unfortunately, in certain major cities that host these kinds of brothas like, LA, DC, ATL, etc,they rule. I HATE this lifestyle, because it's killing black women at a high rate. Does he use any lip gloss that has a fruity flavor and wham color? Does he listen to the divas such as Patti La belle,Dion, Franklin and watch way too much Americas next top model more than you? I donât know everything but I believe I can spot a down low brotha from a mile away. Men should just be straight up. Now I do KNOW for a fact who is down low, and who isn't, and who is curious now! Down lows are usually very masculine and hard to detect. If your relationship problems go away without any real resolution, he might have ulterior motives for ⦠While this is exciting at first, it might be a sign heâs roaming. He spends more time with his boys than with you. turns out the whole time he was having sex with me he was having sex with men in our unit. He died left me with HIV.. and testimony I've had to tell to men meet. He's pulling Houdinis. I wondered if a guy I dated was down low be/c one day he posed w/ his hands on his waist, a male friend would text him every holiday one time he sent 3 text saying Merry Xmas throughout the day. Have you ever had a nagging suspicion about your manâs sexual orientation? This read is for entertainment purposes only, so please don't get your panties in a bunch, no pun intended fellas. "Bisexual" means having sexual encounters with both sexes (male and female). One of the biggest tell-tale signs that your boyfriend is insecure with his sexuality is if he shows unusual levels of homophobia. But one thing about the book, it opened my eyes! Does he talk funny or gets shy when he's speaking to other men? Women really gotta be careful these days because most men will actually show no signs at all, and then how can you protect yourself. And if your boyfriend or husband with does most, or all, of the following things, he's probably one them (sorry!). How about he has had MANY different girlfriends in the past and never been married. 28. Somebody bitch slap the author of this please. He Likes To "Pretend" To Dance Like A Woman. He told me body builders do it but he is no body builder! Does it take him forever to pick an outfit to wear out? It seems like a stereotype diarrhea, This is plain stupid , these are traits of flaming queens . Does he like for you to do weird things to him sexually that a female would most often prefer? Can't argue with them. You must do better, because hunnee, that was just gay! ALWAYS USE A CONDOM UNTIL YOU GET OUT OF IT. He always has guys over his house. Is your ⦠Bisexual means having sex with both sexes. Maybe he makes weird comments. Theyâre all over the music industry, theyâre in youâre neighborhood and theyâre in the workplace. Do you know what is that place and where it is..? I was involved for years, with a friend that would later turnout to be "A DL Brother". brandonfowler66 (author) from EveryWhere USA on November 21, 2010: LuvSumMe those are good points to add, and might i add that any risque sex can spread disease, but many women wont stand for being made a fool of when these downlow men finally are out of the closet which puts peoples lives further in jeopardy. I recommended that book to a lot of women! If you suspect.. "Down low" is a name applied to bisexuals in denial. 39. This had better be a joke, unless you met a guy that enjoyed playing on your own bigotry for fun. *Extremely homophobic â he hates gays to the point he is always talking about it. "Kevin" is a man in his mid-fifties, married, with two children, one of whom is handicapped. Huh? *He is an abuser â if he abuses you for no reason (verbally and physically) he is crying for help. Thus to help women and men spot a Down Low Brother, here are some helpful hints that will let you know. Does he ever talk about ex girlfriends? he always points out other gays he speaks his voice changes when we r alone he is manly out in public an very femein alone with me he doesn't like to hold me but likes for me to hold him he makes weird comments like i see why men r gay so they cant have babies an he spends a lot of time talkin to his guy friend when i asked him what's up with that he says the guy seems to have gay ways an he really doesn't know if another where very hard an religious an him being the oldest boy make him hide or be with women to please her he doest want a male child very afraid of that, I don't know what everyone is griping about. yes to more than 15 of the questions or at least a majority Is it weird for me to be okay with the fact that my fiancé could possibly be into the whole down low scene? So you say your boyfriend or husband has been acting strange ,here a some of the signs to look for. I will read the JL King book so I can identify (more of )the signs. Putting your dreams down Whether they involve school, your career or a hobby youâre passionate about, he should never make you feel like you canât or shouldnât chase the things you love. A stare can be different from a glance. Others have described their intuition as a spoken whisper or an instant aversion to someone. A MAN ..should be honest and comment on his ladies hair if its hot its hot... thanks....a MAN should use good personal hygiene....most women dont like men with ragged hands and feet GO GET THEM DONE..esp if he works in a corporate setting....a MAN that cannot dress is quite a turn off and quite careless if you ask me... music....what id he is a skilled musician... clothing color...women beg their men to wear pinks and purples..colors were made ignorantly into certain meaning by man...tight pant..some MEN workout ..could naturally be larger..n quite honestly they make pants that are form fitted simply because they look better..I hate baggy pants either dressy or jeans on a MAN it looks cheap and lame....shopping ..its his money , hell let him shop, ..if he has good taste he does..certai nthings are obtained from an individuals personal style and taste...i know men who never had money ..went and got a degree..and changed their whole look...and are NOT gay/bi/dl..whatever ...shaving skin..is a personal pref..some women do not like being sexually intimate w a man who is relatively hairy (body or pube)..some men are self conscious about being hairy so the shave ..shaving pubic hair... can be sexy , having hair can be sexy just depends...the list goes on an on and on ..this post is def VERY far fetched .... and the TRUE dEF of DL would be someone who is in relationship w someone and having physical and/or emotionally intimate(sexual) relations w someone typically w the same sex!! I can take comfort in knowing that I NEVER slept with him without a condom, but that doesn't mean I didn't feel dirty, or exposed once I knew the truth. His friends clothing? Hate sucks. His sexual appetite has decreased extremely. 17. hehehe! Claims of working long hours at work or periods of unaccounted time â Living with a partner ⦠Does he wear thong underwear? I hold no anger. Does he shave his legs often to have them smooth n silky? 46. I do not care how down lows argue that they are straight, straight men do not have sex with men. 31. Here Are 7 Tips To Letting Go Of Self-Hate. if he would just allow me to do it to him we would be so much better. This is one telltale sign that the man youíre dating might be on the down low. Does he have male friends who's girlfriends you've actually met? Lingering and longing. Out with him, texting, speaking low on the phone. Does he look at other guys judging how they look or how something they have on looks,does he do it too much? Does he spend hours in the bathroom doing his hair or in the mirror flexing or posing? Many down lows insist that they are not bisexual. Such men should not marry women who want whole men. Down lows are bisexuals in the closet. The author had me literally rolling on the floor laughing. If you miss the right âmoment', then stepping on the brakes will be of no use. To "The Man" that's good somebody isn't taking it so seriously and getting a laugh, people have their own takes on things. Here are five warning signs of a bad boyfriend that you need to pay attention to. These two planned sex parties together, were swingers together. But if there are those of you Down-low men taking offense my apoligies. A real downlow man doesn't even show none of those signs sweety. The one greatest sign you can look for is a man who is hyper masculine or hyper sexual - I mean to an extreme. Mike from Harrisburg Pa on October 25, 2015: I try to be upfront about myself but a few women want to think differently. Its not even what these men do that women care about, it's the risk they're put at. Could be overcompensation to hide something. If you have ever found yourself with a man that you later discovered was creepin this way, there is no way you would ever post the inexperienced list above. If heâs suddenly or progressively unable to get or keep an erection long enough for sex, it can be concerning for both of you. Leana Annandale from Pongola South Africa on November 01, 2017: I like your article.I have many gay friends who are afraid to admit that they are gay. Check out the dating websites and how some of the guys pose??? Another guy I know shaves all of his hair below. These are nothing but generalizations and stereotypes, I don't think you ever met a man like this rather you probably haven't met any. Second clue, I heard two late night messages from a man left on his answering machine. THE BATHROOM IS A QUICK MEAT AND GREET PLACE. And I read JL Kings' book "On The Down Low". How much fun does the "Game" sound Now ? If your man penis area smells like a condom, rotten breath and poop these are clear signs your man is on the down low. 33. 10. This oneâs pretty straight forward â you catch your man checking out ⦠The person who wrote this has no clue. If you suspect a dude on the low, go with your first thought & get the hell away from that Kat!!! What a devastating toll it, can take on your life. But if your boyfriend actively hates gay men even if they have never done anything to him and never speak to him, then this is extremely telling. Does he wear makeup,eyeliner perhaps? That is if I were on the down low! 11. Watch the masculine ones with porn problems ladies. 29. We've done some research and put together a few signs that might warn you to stay away from the guy you're dating because he may secretly wear your panties and play in your make-up. The number one sign of detecting a down-low man is a woman's intuition. Reality is, its a PERSONS business, but it should be one or the other not both at the same time , that is where the problem lies nobody wants to be cheated on and played! 25. She felt safer with us than with 1 straight guy. I did read King's book, ON THE DOWN LOW, and it was quite informative. This list can make or break..I can honestly say some of these traits Ive gotten from both KNOWN straight men and Known gay/bi men. LOL. "Bi-" means "two." Heâs really homophobic to the point in which he refuses to be around gay men. DL, down low, and boogieman are all names used for a heterosexual man who sleeps with other men in secret. Does he ever comment on men looking good or being sexy in wet white T Shirts? 20. Now he does visits and says nothing now I found condoms in his draw and his answer was like oh I don't know where I picked those up from so I gave him the impression that his answer was just that I am not waitin for the ll to drop I have enough evidence to get him out my life and live his true life my thing is how do I confront him, how do I go about giving him hard cold facts. !..not who they are or what they do as a person..... Levertis Steele from Southern Clime on October 04, 2012: Down lows are married men who secretly sleep with men occasionally. 27. The level of trust is gone and you will always feel suspicious of your next relationship. 1. Okay he probably doesn't watch it in front of you, 8. 23. 16. All i know to be true is that it is a struggle a for a man who has same sex attraction , but GOD can deliver from sexual perversion and "ill- lust of the flesh". 18. While you might worry his lack of excitement means your relationship is on the rocks, there could be another explanation: a health condition called erectile dysfunction (ED).. Itâs estimated that 50 percent of men ages 40 to 70 have this problem. If he does look at a man for more than 10 seconds, it is a confirmation from all doubts. The Eyes have When Heterosexual Men pass each other on the street there is rarely an abundance of eye contact. Now keep reading to hear of two particula down low brothers, and how to identify them in the general society of socializing. Before we delve into the signs of bisexuality in males, letâs dig a little into what it really is and what happens if a person is bisexual. http://www.oprah.com/oprahshow/meet-men-living-on-the-down-low-video, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PcYy_xikk1Q. (must admit, this isn't a true sign). That's why they are called straight. That's why its called "On the Down Low". Does he show an interest in the way you style your hair by saying remarks such as that's hot,oh you're working that do,what kind of mousse did you use,did you wash your hair with a PH balance shampoo,or try to style your hair himself? It’s a scary situation finding out your spouse is living a double life. I was married to an educated man so deep in the closet. They try to keep their marriage and secret life at the same time. If a low esteemed man isnât able to naturally draw out ⦠Heâs really homophobic to the point in which he refuses to be around gay men She said, "I'm tired of seeing these nasty s.o.b's standing on the corner in front of my house all day with the pants hanging off their ass selling dope & flirting with the women, but when 12 midnight come, you see those same 2 guys from the corner selling dope and flirting with women, now they are in the dark in the alley sucking and f---ing each other and thinking nobody is seeing them!!! Again these are only a few signs that I have come across but if there is something I may have missed please alert me on it in the comment section so that I may add it, then we can finally get to the bottom of the down low subject and close it. 3. I felt betrayed and deeply hurt when he revealed his secret life . Ladies, ALWAYS follow your gut instincts with men, or anyone else for that matter. He doesnât force his opinions on you. Well, apparently my Facebook feed caught a very strange bout of amnesia this morning, as multiple people were sharing and talking about Farrah Gray's "10 Signs On How To Tell If Heâs On The Down Low" â a list so 2004 that I felt (and still feel) like it was performance art. Does he gossip about other people to you? He behaved like a straight guy. There is never anything wrong with being yourself,nobody in the world should have to pretend to be someone to please family or friends. do you know the place in the world where people visit to low down their stress and anger on somebody... its like the people visit the place and they throw stones, they do what ever they want, nobody stops them.. all this is because to low down their anger. These âbrakes' have to be used at the most opportune moments in a relationship. by Nobody: 6:13pm On Mar 23, 2016 Guys will mess up and have a loyal woman thinking something is wrong with her and a beautiful woman thinking she not attractive or less of a woman, simply by how inconsistent he treats her. Down low men have been around for years. Does he hug or touch his friends in weird kinds of ways when he greets them? Straight men hate condoms and want to get away from them as soon as they establish you're disease free and monogomous. Light Skin Vs Dark Skin Discussion And The Stigma Against Black Women. And he (JL KING) wrote all about the tell tell signs in his book about a real "down Low Man"! WATCH THAT COWARD! 22. Most wives with down low husbands never find out. For example, he purses the woman who he can't stand. Does he walk with sort of a switch like his butt hurts but still manly? Why Do Most Men Want A Side Chick? Does he pluck his eyebrows to shape them? And if I see a woman with a man I KNOW to be this way, I'm telling her right in his face! I do not accept the fact that he allows a man to bend him over but i am definitely ok with the fact that he gets off being anally penetrated!!!! He even wanted me to be with his friend while he watched. You know the one! Um, I would say one sign that he could have been down low was during Thanksgiving dinner a few months before he cheated, when our mutual friend that he eventually cheated on me with was passing around his dick pic at ⦠36. Does he watch weird or homosexual porn constantly? He's probabyly not down-low but could be all the way gay. They are truly in love with these" DL" guy's so if it is a "Game". Does he have a fantasy about getting spanked? not down low. Does he own a village people track that he plays constantly? #1 He isnât interested in sex with you. 47. Does he seem not to enjoy sex as much with you when the two of you are intimate? 3)The Down Low brotha always seeks a cover up. HIV is on the rise you can’t tell anymore if someone has any transmitted diseases. Defining The Different Types Of Side Chicks. Hey I am not in Denizli just wanted to get things cleared. Here Are 12 Signs To Know If Your Man Is Cheating On You. Ladies go with your instinct. Some men do wear them. 9. The best way to slow down a relationship that is moving too fast is to pull on some âbrakes'. I just want to say something to "DL "and also there partners, that this is literally destroying women lives they have "NO" idea. The true saying “everything that’s done in the dark will eventually come to the light” don’t go stressing your brain looking for clues that your man may be cheating on you. 2. Most of the Manly men like to keep it a secret due to their pride. In other words, a woman who he can use as a cover up for his attraction towards men. Does he have a best friend that is gay or people suspect of being on the down-low? I did live with a woman who knew about me and and my last partner. A man with many secrets in his closet. I THINK IT A LITTLE SUSPECT WHEN MEN MAKE REGULAR BATHROOM VISITS WHILE OUT FOR DINNER, BEACH, PARK, ETC. i beleive my guy is on the down low it don't bother me,i think he needs to come to terms with it. Double Lives On The Down Low - New York Times, Down-low (sexual slang) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia, Home Schooling & Life Experience Education. We're going to go with the does he game and if you find yourself saying yes to more than 15 of the questions or at least a majority,chances are he's definitely down low. 30. 45. Puppy biscuits! 12. DIA FEA from Maumee, OH on January 01, 2010: Um, that was just plain gay tell tell, nothing of the sort of a man that is on the down low. I would never display any of these to my wife ! 41. Anthony Antoine Closets on Fire â 2005 Anthony Antoine Released on: 2005-01-01 Auto-generated by YouTube. Lovelydeelady, you're right. It’s disgusting to know that a man can sleep with another man openly and then return home to his lady as if nothing has ever happened. He exhibits sexually coercive behavior. I could not go to him without doing my homework so he continued and I made up an email like I was a guy contacting him but it back fired because the email had my real address so he was telling guys he almost got caught that he had to erase everything , now his job has him on visits on most days and I have known him to pad the books to s. He did a visit to get the mileage money and he would usually tell me he was doing a visit. 40. For those who are unsure what a down low brotha is, it is a man who dates women and carries on relationships with women although he is secretly gay. tight clothing. I can agree with just 19. A straight freak just has some other woman he swings with, but not this time. This list was stupid. Fear of what others will think. What whole woman wants her man mountaing another man? He picks fights for no reason at all. Ladies, 10 Tips To Tell If Your Man Is On The DOWN LOW [take Dis Serious!] Does he get excited when the circus comes to town? It's so crazy reading a lot of you guys talking mess and thinking it's sensible, it's normal for two guys to be buddies,it's doesn't gv any idea that they might be sucking each other dicks,nowadays the more masculine men are the ones being gays,while the feminine men are the straight ones,and the fact that people may called someone gay,don't Mae them gay,people just take it upon themselves to judge people,and does that be calling people gays,are mostly the gay ones,because the make it look like they hate gays,whole they doing it in the closet,that's pure bullshits,the world has come to the term of accepting everyone for who they are,so stop lying to urself if u know u really wanna be with men. Layn down sad n kryn ..idk y im even his fiancé. Oh and lets not forget the tone of their voice at times. One of those things would be the Down-Low Brotha. He is interesting. Does he spend too much time with a single male friend? Let me just say from being with a man that was on the down low for 7 years the sign are all true but we as being black women be so in love that we over look what is right in our face my ex-hushad come from a single parent with only his mother and I just feeled cuz he was around females all his that he was just a clean freak but it more to it but the ting say is black women need to be more carefully with who u deal with....... now am a gay black male no am not on da dl y u may ask because i have 3 sisters soo i know what u women go through... to make a long story short if u ladies are goin buy this ways to find out if your man is on da down low yall are all dead wrong i have dated from thugs baskball players football office men and no am not a whore i just know da ways yall have on here yall will keep getting used email me and i will go more in details ladiedi6363@aol.com. 11. Maybe he's just a clean freak but maybe some mans looking at those toes. 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